In Need of a Babysitter!

One thing is always for certain in the Navy: nothing is for certain! Of course Jason has been called to deploy to some school once again when I need him most to finish school. I had worked out a deal with a friend who would help me with Tristan and I would watch another girl for her while she went to school so that she had a job in the evenings... but of course that fell through and I'm left pretty screwed. So now I am in the process of looking for someone to watch Tristan at night when I'm in school and Jason isn't home or has to work late. The problem then becomes us not wanting him in daycare (which isn't open at night anyways) and not trusting other people. My mom just recently moved to Hawaii so that leaves me with no family to watch him either. Jason is finally realizing as well how hard going to school and raising a baby are since he's having to watch Tristan at night. After arguing with me to go back to school and about finding a job, he has come to the realization that things were much easier when I was just staying home with Tristan and my only responsibility was to the both of them. I've missed a few classes already because we just have no childcare. Tristan is the best baby in the world, i'm truly blessed, and it makes me sick I'm putting him through this. I want to get a degree but my heart is with my baby. So now I'm stuck trying to find a trustworthy babysitter in time for classes next week so i can just get through the semester.